Before meeting, I do require a simple routine screening. Along with your name & phone number, I require either: 2 recent reference friendly provider references (9 months old at max), employment verification, or P411 (my P411 ID is P214317) with additional info. A photo of your ID may be requested as well for any of my screening methods. I don't accept agency references.
It is rare that I am able to meet same day, so please make plans at least 1-2 days in advance. I am able to meet you at your location, or I am able to make arrangements for an additional $200 fee and 50% deposit. Last minute dates are to be outcall only, as I do not host from a regular space. On the ocassion I am available same day, I require a half day minimum notice.
Those that have a history of being unreliable may or may not be asked for a deposit or be turned down. Upon contacting me, please provide all information requested. Be considerate and professional. Do not ask inappropriate questions, as I will have to turn down your date request. I am selective about the company that I keep.



Once I have verified all your information, I will send you an email letting you know my decision about seeing you. Once you are approved, I will ask you if you'd like to confirm. When our date is confirmed I will give you my phone number so that you can easily reach me. I ask that you do not share my phone number with anyone. I only check my phone line when I am expecting someone to contact me- please email me only unless it is the day of our date. On the day of our date, I will send you a text or email (whichever you prefer) to reconfirm we are still set on meeting and exchange specific details/directions.


Our Time Together

As you would like me to be, show up fresh and dressed to impress! If you are visiting me- have the donation for my time already prepared in an unsealed envelope and leave it in clear site at the beginning of our time together, and excuse yourself to freshen up. If I am visiting you- please have the donation prepared in an unsealed envelope and leave it on the bathroom counter or in plain sight before I arrive. I will excuse myself to go freshen up. I'm uncomfortable having to ask for my gift, so please don't make me.

Please be aware of the time. If you would like to extend our time together, just ask me. If I am able to accommodate you, be ready to adjust your offering.

I am not available to spend time with you that is not compensated for. This includes having dinner or drinks. Please respect my boundaries, and don't make any requests of the sort. If you would like to share a drink or meal, I'd be happy to accompany you, when a proper date is set.


Cancellation Policy

I understand things come up, and life happens. If the event comes that you need to cancel a confirmed date with me, please give me as much notice as possible. As time lost hurts me, cancellations made within 24 hour notice of appointment require a 50% fee of the booked appointment rate. Appointments canceled with less than 12 hours notice will result in 100% of my fee.

Dates that I have as my guest- your deposit is 100% non-refundable with 24 hour notice, while touring you have a week to the date to cancel. 

I am flexible with rescheduling, and do not charge if enough notice is given.



As a private person myself, I understand how important discretion and privacy is. For your comfort during screening, I have an alternate more discreet email address that I can give to you, for employment verification. All screening information will be deleted once we have met. Let me know if you prefer to be contacted via email or text. I won't text or call you unless I have your okay. All information is held confidential and only seen by me. Please respect my privacy as well, and do not overstep your boundaries.



Gifts and tips are never expected, but always appreciated. For the gentleman that is interested in getting me something, but not sure what to get me- I appreciate the little things- flowers, champagne, red or white wine (I collect pretty bottles), or bring me a postcard (which I also collect) from your home city/travels!  For those that are interested in getting me something else...

Stores I shop at: Agent Provocateur, Journelle, Nordstrom, Shopbop, Revolve, Saks Fifth Ave, Sephora, and Pressed Juicery.

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LYLA REY 2019.